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There are lots of fear and phobias which cannot be easily got over .But the constant effort will help us over come this .I always love to read Harivansh Rai Bacchans poems over Premchand sad stories as they are inspire me to live life to the fullest . Though Premchand was a brilliant writer but he only wrote sad stories that will make you feel dull. Hmm....today I will share a real incident with you through a short story.
Few days ago Trisha meets a couple in matrimonial offices when she was passing by from there.
'Hello Auntie 'Trisha said .Then after a while when she did not get the desired reply. What's the matter with auntie uncle? She enquires having teasing looks on my face. Enough! Trisha I do not wish to answer any of questions she said sternly and leaves the place by hiring a rick. How rude Trisha wonders? As Trisha could not understand anything from the way she behaved. Sensing her trouble Raj takes her calmly hands in his hands and says "It's matrimonial fear which parents go through" .When they have to find a 'Proper Match' for their sons and daughters and this auntie's elder has married somebody from out .Meaning......................? Trisha asks him. Meaning ....someone not belonging to his/her community .Oh! That means love Trisha says quiet enthusiastically. But he keeps quiet and says "It is fearful love". Fearful love...? Trisha asks with her eyebrows raised. Chalo I will speak to you on this topic over a cup of tea Raj says in his classy style. Trisha and Raj went to a hotel and luckily get a seat in secluded area to sit and have our tea with Raj giving gyaan on fearful love she thought mindfully .As they were entering Raj reads the name of hotel .The name of hotel was 'The Matches Hotel'. How apt the word is they thought to themselves and get themselves settled down. Raj places order for some snacks for both and starts imparting knowledge on Fearful love.
I know that auntie was being quiet rude to you only because she does not want to let her second son be trapped by the prowess women who can make an man to her tunes like the eldest one .It is this fear that has made irritable and agitated with the way her life is shaping .As the eldest daughter -in -law has made her servant of house .She fears that her second daughter in law will get all the wrong info about her .It's in a way correct .In today where women and men are walking shoulder to shoulder with a lot of expectations from other party so both of them will have behave properly other you know ....court room drama.Another fear which most men and women have is how could I live with a stranger all through his/her life? Even though parents give them time .So in order to escape the tortures of an arrange marriage they try to lie or fall in love in someone whom they like. But once they come to know their family have half hearted accepted them then they will term as "Love" and will create such a spur about it in Social media's that will make others believe that they could also have their share of office romances or building romances but in fact it is other way round ..It is guilty consciously or fear that kills the person ability to think and create peace around us. If our mind is not at rest are creativity is weekend. Understood Trisha madam so do not hurt yourself by rewinding and remembering whatever the auntie expressed or said .
Oh I see it's a vicious like this no
1 . Marriage
2. A parents Fear about getting a proper match for his/her sons and daughters
3. Youth out fears of living with a complete stranger throughout their entire life (fear of something)
4. They marry a person whom they like despite the fact that their parents half hearted accepted them That makes them feel guilty of their actions.
Yes he says and drops Trisha home .Remember Trisha always be happy and contented with ever you have and desperation for something will leave no where dear Raj says as he open the door of his car for her. Her nodes feeling satisfied with his gyaan on the subject of 'Fearful Love'
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